Recognising and Supporting Elder Abuse — Reporting Financial, Emotional, and Neglect Abuse and Help Pathways
How to recognise financial, emotional, and neglect abuse and safely ask for help through Australia's official reporting and support pathways
What is elder abuse
Elder abuse refers to acts by someone in a relationship of trust that harm or cause suffering to an older person. In Australia, the person responsible is most often not a stranger but someone close, such as an adult child, relative, carer, or attorney under a power of attorney (POA holder). Abuse is not only physical violence; it takes many forms, including financial abuse (taking money and property), emotional/psychological abuse (causing mental distress through threats, insults, or isolation), and neglect (failing to provide needed care, food, or medical treatment). This guide helps older migrant families living in Australia, together with their children and carers, to recognise this kind of abuse and ask for help through official pathways.
Distinguishing it from spousal and aged care facility issues
If the person responsible is a spouse or intimate partner, this falls within family and domestic violence, where dedicated support such as 1800RESPECT is more appropriate (see the family and domestic violence support guide). Conversely, if the issue is the quality of a service at a nursing home or in home care, the aged care services guide and the Aged Care Quality and Safety Commission pathway are the right fit. How to create a power of attorney is covered in the wills and power of attorney guide; this guide focuses on the misuse and financial exploitation of a power of attorney that has already been made.
Steps to recognise abuse and ask for help
If you suspect abuse, you do not have to decide for yourself whether it is a criminal matter — you can first ask for help via a helpline. The national elder abuse helpline 1800ELDERHelp (1800 353 374) automatically connects you to the helpline for the state or territory you are calling from, and calls are free and confidential. Online, you can find help pathways and services by state at the national information hub Compass. If it is urgent or there is immediate danger, call 000 (police and ambulance) first. State helpline numbers and services can change over time, so it is safest to check the latest information on Compass and official state government pages.
What can you talk about — you do not need to be certain
You can contact a helpline even if you are not sure whether it is abuse or whether it is worth reporting. The advisers will help you work through the situation together and guide you to next steps such as a safety plan, legal help, and advocacy. Not only the person themselves, but also concerned family, neighbours, or carers can make an enquiry on their behalf. That said, the guiding principle is that the final decision respects the wishes of the person experiencing the abuse.
- 1800ELDERHelp (1800 353 374) — national helpline, automatically connected to your state's helpline (free and confidential)
What is worth preparing before you ask for help
Briefly organising the situation before seeking support or reporting can help you get assistance faster. It does not have to be perfect — simply noting down the facts you remember and the things that worry you is enough. If you are not comfortable in English, you can get support in many languages, including Korean, through the free interpreting service TIS National (131 450); just say at the start of the call that you need an interpreter.
- Note in chronological order what happened and when, whether it has been repeated, and the people involved (including their relationship)
- If you have documents related to financial abuse — such as bank transactions, contracts, or copies of the power of attorney (POA) — keep them safe
Understanding abuse by type
Abuse can also occur in overlapping forms, and the following four are particularly often reported in older migrant families. Knowing the signs of each type can help you recognise it early.
Using someone's money, pension, or property without consent, or pressuring them to sign documents or transfer ownership. This includes an attorney holding a power of attorney (POA) using funds for personal purposes beyond their authority. Bankbooks or cash suddenly disappearing, or unpaid bills, can be signs.
Acts that cause mental distress through threats, insults, dismissiveness, or isolation. It can take the form of blocking contact with family and friends, or demanding obedience in return for care. The person may also show signs of anxiety, withdrawal, or depression.
A person with a duty of care failing to provide needed food, hygiene, medical care, or safety. This includes both deliberate and careless neglect, with signs such as malnutrition, untreated illness, or unsuitable living conditions.
Using financial or legal representative authority for the attorney's own benefit rather than in the person's interest. Remedies include applying to revoke the power of attorney or seek oversight through the Public Trustee, Public Guardian, or state tribunal; because procedures and agency names differ by state, check with Legal Aid.
Step-by-step practical tips
A checklist to help you move forward step by step without panicking when you suspect abuse.
- If there is immediate danger, call 000 first and secure safety.
- Even if you are not certain, get advice through 1800ELDERHelp (1800 353 374) or Compass and be guided to next steps.
- If you are not comfortable in English, request an interpreter through TIS National (131 450) and get support in your own language.
Cautions and common misconceptions
The following misconceptions can delay help or lead to the wrong pathway, so they deserve particular care.
- The misconception that "you have to make a mandatory report" — Australia has no universal mandatory reporting for elder abuse (aged care SIRS is the exception). Do not confuse this with the child mandatory reporting scheme.
- The idea that "it's a family matter, so I shouldn't get involved" — helplines are confidential, and you can start with a conversation rather than a report.
Useful official links
- Compass (Elder Abuse Action Australia)(opens in a new window)
Compass — the national information hub for finding explanations of the types of elder abuse and help pathways by state
- My Aged Care(opens in a new window)
My Aged Care — information on government-funded aged care services and how to access them (linking to enquiries about care quality and facilities)
- Older Persons Advocacy Network (OPAN)(opens in a new window)
OPAN — a national network providing advocacy and support for older people's rights